Weird Mom Stuff (…please tell me you relate)

After hearing all the horror stories about having kids, I delayed motherhood as long as I biologically could. And although I was quite aware of the hard work and patience this important role required, nothing prepares you for the reality of it all.

So here is my list of weird things I never experienced before being a mom…

  • Having a running commentary while I poop. EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.
  • (in the same line) Having someone ask me out loud, in a public restroom, whether I am pooping or peeing. And when I get out of the stall there is always an inquisitive look on at least one other restroom attendee to whom I feel I owe them an answer.
  • Trying to convince someone the importance of wearing pants.
  • Being reprimanded for using the yellow cup instead of the blue cup… and the next day, being reprimanded for using the blue cup.
  • Getting the fright of my life when waking in the middle of the night to a 3-year old staring at you while you sleep.
  • Finding the answer to so many life questions such as why that man has a big belly (and then incessantly repeating the question no matter how hard you try to ignore them).
  • Having someone point to your face and say with disgust: What’s that? when I have a pimple.
  • Getting some poop, puke, snot anywhere you least expect it and only finding out later that same day when you are out in public.
  • The satisfaction of successfully removing a booger from my 3-year old’s nose.
  • Carefully combing through long hair and breathing a sign of relief when you didn’t find any lice.
  • Take a day off work to go to the emergency clinic and waiting for hours because your child complains of an earache but the doctor doesn’t see anything abnormal and as you are leaving your daughter says: See the doctor fixed it, it doesn’t hurt anymore! When all the doc did was look in her hear with a flashlight!
  • Having someone eat off your plate because your piece of chicken tastes better than the exact same piece of chicken on their plate.
  • Hiding in a corner in the kitchen eating the last remaining cookies/chocolate/chips out of the box so that you don’t have to share.
  • Getting overly excited when you find a toy, sweater, bracelet, book, hat, ball, game, shoes, socks, gloves, dress, lunch box, glass, napkin, pen, clip with one of my daughter’s favourite Disney princess.
  • Having a 3-year old pick out your outfit in the morning because your brain is too fried from lack of sleep.
  • Being told my legs are prickly (it’s Winter people, give me a break!).
  • Being told I’m the best mom ever and then referring to me as a poop face in the same sentence.
  • Arguing with someone about why they shouldn’t eat a five-day old Cheerio laying on the bathroom floor right before they pop it in their mouth.
  • Hearing someone screaming from the bathroom to help them wipe their butt.
  • Being asked by my child’s teacher if the argument I had with my husband last night is resolved because there was a lot of noise coming from our bedroom.

Ok so for the sake of ending on a positive note and writing that all the good stuff of having kids overrides the bad… well, in reality, not always. But one thing is for sure, I love my daughters with all my heart and they make my life the best thing ever (chaos and boogers and everything)…. Plus, they greet me like a Rock star whenever I come home from work and THAT is the best feeling in the world.



I always wanted to do a post about my favourite makeup products. People who know me, know that when Sephora came to Montreal, I was screaming of joy (ok well not literally but in my head that is)! Makeup is sooo much fun and makes everything more colorful. I like to try new things and experiment with new colors but I also have a few staples that I rely on a daily basis.

Here are my favourite makeup products (for now):

NAKED Eye Makeup Palettes by Urban Decay

These have become a staple in my makeup repertoire. Whenever they made a new one I had to be the first to get it. So far my collection includes NAKED 1: neutral/cold hues, NAKED 2: warmer hues and NAKED 3: rose gold hues, then there is a Smokey palette and a Heat palette that came out in 2017. The reason I love these palettes is that there are sooo many colors to choose from per palette and they are perfect for whatever look you are going for whether it’s subtle, more glam or matte for work. Plus they are great for travelling, why bring only one shade when you can bring 12!


Hourglass Immaculate Oil Free Foundation

I juggle between my foundations and I like to switch it up occasionally. For the moment, I love the Hourglass Immaculate foundation. It works well for my skin type, which tends to be on the oily side. I also have acne-prone skin (yes, even at my age!) so I’m extra careful as to what I put on my face. I love the coverage and they have so many shades to pick from. It also does a great job of staying in place throughout the day and you can build it up if you want more coverage.


DiorShow Pump & Volume Mascara by Dior

I’m always on the lookout for the best mascara out there. I want one that does it all. This one comes pretty close to doing it all: thickens, elongates and even curls my lashes. Lancôme Hypnose Drama comes in as aclose second and I often alternate between the two.


Makeup Forever Ultra HD lip booster (tinted color 01)

I fell in love with this product the moment I put it on. It is silky not greasy and the color looks very natural, sheer but with a subtle tint. It is amazing for winter dry lips. It is also a serum so it has wonderful ingredients that make your lips soft and smooth. I also like the Dior Lip Glow colors. Although their colors are a bit brighter, they are definitely pretty and do a great job at moisturizing your lips as well.


M.A.C Petal Peony Blush

This blush is the prettiest Winter pink. If you are looking for that rosy Winter cheek effect, this one is perfect. I have olive skin so pinks are a bit tricky because some simply don’t show on my skin tone and others look too chalky. This is suits olive skin tones perfectly and adds that cool contrast to our tone.


Stila All Day Waterproof liquid eyeliner (in jet Black)

I have tried a gazillion liquid eyeliners and this one beats them all. It’s brush like tip and dark pigmented ink is amazing. I have to mention that this is particularly for the black shade. I tried the dark blue and the effect wasn’t as intense. The other great thing about this liner is that it lasts and lasts and lasts. I know you are supposed to throw away your liners every 6 months to a year but this one goes well beyond that and the ink is nowhere from fading! Like a magic endless bottle of liner!


Lancôme Le Stylo Waterproof eye liner

If you prefer a pencil, my fav is Lancôme. Not only is the tip retractable (so no sharpening required) but there is also a sponge tip on the other end which works perfectly for smudging. I have these in black, brown, and grey. I’ve been using these for years and they never disappoint. They even have an amazingly bright indigo blue which I have yet to try!

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So there you have it. Trust me, I have tried and tried a vast array of all of these makeup products, so I know what I’m talking about… until the next new batch of products comes in… stay tuned!!!

And since I’m always on the lookout for new products, tell me what is your go-to/can’t live without makeup product?

How to Have it All in 2018!

Happy-New-Year-2018As the New Year is swiftly approaching, the feeling of starting fresh is rampant. In the first few days of the new year, we have all the motivation to get us up and going. Some of us vow this will be the year that we will finally lose the weight, pay off debt, take that trip we always wanted to take, eat better,… Then there are others that are all too accustomed to breaking their resolutions before they even begin and find it simpler not make any resolutions and stay status quo and not change anything in their lives.

Sometimes the answer lies somewhere in the middle.

If you are motivated, go with it. Instead of calling them New Year’s resolutions, call them goals. Here are some tricks to make your goals stick all year round.

  1. Limit how many goals you pick: Some years I had a list of about 10 goals to achieve: stop eating crap, exercise every day, stop buying crap I don’t need, write daily in my journal, read a book a month, etc. By the end of week 2, I would definitely fail at one of those things. Instead, write down 3 goals for the year and mark your most important. Start with that one. Remember you can have it all just not all at the same time! HealthandFitnessGoals
  2. Make your goals achievable: This one is important because it will keep you motivated longer. For example, if you never exercise and now you want to workout everyday, that may not be feasible. Start off slow, maybe exercise 1 or 2 days per week the first week. Then continue until you feel you can fit in a third day, then a fourth and so forth. Also, no need to spend two hours at the gym, sometimes 30 minutes is all you need. If 30 minutes is too long, start with 10 minutes and build it up gradually.goal-quote goal without plan-1
  3. Break it down: In order to achieve your goal, just like any other big project, break it down into smaller tasks. For example, say you want to lose 20 pounds. It won’t happen overnight. In fact, a healthy way to lose the weight is to lose 1 to 2 pounds per week. Then, it’s important to calculate how many calories you have to burn per week in order to lose 1 or 2 pounds per week (click here to find out how). So if you do the math, it may take up to 4 or 5 months for you to lose 20 pounds in a healthy, non-depriving, bitchy way.
  4. Make it fun: You won’t always feel like it. In fact, most people abandon their goals after the first 2 weeks of starting. The trick is to keep going. Don’t expect motivation to always be present. Depend on discipline to get you through. Make it a habit, like brushing your teeth, then you will wonder how you got along without doing what you are now so used to doing.success-quote
  5. Review and reward: Once you break out your goal into achievable sub-goals, you can choose to reward yourself after achieving each sub-goal. For example, if you want to get stronger and do 100 push ups a day by the end of the year, reward yourself when you manage to do 25, then 50,… Rewards don’t have to be big or things, it can be as simple as putting a dollar in a jar for every workout or getting a spa day after losing your first 5 pounds. Also, review your goals every three months to see how much progress you made and whether you need to adjust them to make them harder or ease up a bit.Clear strategy and leadership solutions

And most importantly, enjoy the process. Learn as much as you can from the journey. You will be amazed how many new things you will learn along the process, the people you will meet and the new experiences you will discover.

Enjoy 2018 and share your goals below…



Last week my 5 year old daughter had a “race day” at her school. Every grade participated and there were three medals (gold, silver and bronze) distributed per grade for the winners of the race. Just to give you a little context, my daughter is a mini alex when it comes to sports. She is very talented in different areas but her natural abilities are not really in sports. So when I came back home from work that day, I found my little girl curled up in a ball on the couch, under a cozy fuzzy blanket, quietly whimpering away. When I asked her what was wrong, she flung into my arms and sobbed: I didn’t win the medal.


I felt my heart crack and held her tight and brought her into the kitchen to discuss her feelings about what happened that day. Although, to most, it might just seem like a mini event in the grand scheme of things in the life of a 5 year old, but I believe the way we react to defeat has been taught to us from a very young age. For most of us, it goes something like this: We fail at something. We cry. We get angry. A while later, most don’t try but some of us try again. We fail again. We tell ourselves that it is no surprise since we failed before. A few of us try yet again. We fail again. We tell ourselves we aren’t good. We give up. For good this time and hesitate the next time opportunity knocks.

Some of you might be like: yeah, and… your point is….?

What do electricity, Mickey Mouse and Vera Wang have in common?

Guess What?…Everyone has failed at some point. The people we consider the brightest have all failed, over and over and over again. But they NEVER quit! Here are just a few examples:

Walt Disney was fired from the Kansas City Star because his editor felt he “lacked imagination and had no good ideas.”


Oprah Winfrey was publicly fired from her first television job as an anchor in Baltimore for getting “too emotionally invested in her stories.”


Vera Wang failed to make the 1968 US Olympic figure-skating team. Then she became an editor at Vogue, but was passed over for the editor-in-chief position.


Thomas Edison’s teachers told him he was “too stupid to learn anything.”


Theodor Seuss Geisel, better known as Dr. Seuss, had his first book rejected by 27 different publishers.


My message to my daughter that day (and all of us too!):



You have the world in front of you. So many great things to look forward to if you open your eyes.

You have so many precious gifts to share with this world. So stand tall and don’t be afraid to show them.

Never let anything stand in your way to succeeding. Live life as though it is a fantastic adventure not a competition. Be happy for those who win. Just because they win before you doesn’t mean your chance won’t come one day.

Believe in yourself. Be true to yourself and never ever quit on yourself.

This is Why I think YOU’RE AWESOME!

I can honestly say that I love people. I love listening to people talk, how they think, relate to one another. I am intrigued by human life; figures why I studied psychology! It never ceases to amaze me that every single one of us is different. I mean, YOU are 1 in 7.5 billion! Nobody is like YOU, nobody was ever YOU and nobody will ever be YOU. Isn’t that mind blowing?

Ok. Now. Stop.

Take this in. You are 1 in 7.5 fuckin’ billion.

WOW, right?


We should be like fuckin’ jumping and shouting from the rooftops about how wonderful we are! The way you talk, the way you do things, the way you think is different than anybody else. Your signature is yours. Your voice. Your fingerprints. All YOU! Own it. Embrace it. Dip yourself in champagne for this is the best new we can get!

Let’s embrace this uniqueness. Let’s take a moment to feel how wonderful it is to be unlike anybody else. This also means that we owe it to the world to show the amazing things we, and only we, can do. We also owe it to those around us to raise each other up. To support one another. To cheer on our differences and embrace them.

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Let’s stop being complacent and think that “big” things and making a difference are only reserved for the special few, for the brightest, for the prettiest, for the ones most privileged by talent. It is often not the best or the brightest that succeed but the ones that work the hardest, that don’t give up on themselves, or their dreams and who believe that they will succeed no matter what. Let go of limiting beliefs that have kept you from being your authentic you. Shed the beliefs birthed from the failures of your past and use them to shine a light on your future.

Ok, someone stop me before I start lighting some incense and singing kumbaya…

I will leave you with a poem my mom read to me as a little girl and that stayed with me all these years.

“The Man who Thinks he Can”, by Walter D. Wintle

If you think you are beaten, you are;


If you think you dare not, you don’t.

If you’d like to win, but think you can’t

It’s almost a cinch you won’t.

If you think you’ll lose, you’ve lost.


For out in the world we find

Success begins with a fellow’s will:

It’s all in his state of mind.

If you think you’re outclassed, you are:


You’ve got to think high to rise,

You’ve got to be sure of yourself before

You’ll ever win that prize.

Life’s battles don’t always go


To the stronger or faster man,

But sooner or later the man who wins

Is the one who thinks he can.

Keep seeing the good in the world and in ourselves, because it is always there if you choose to see it.

Let Anxiety In…

Given all my years of experience with anxiety (hello, childhood friend who gave me stomach aches and the shakes the night before a presentation!), I have actually built a solid repertoire of tools to help me deal with anxious thoughts.


In fact, this tool actually was brought to me during my second pregnancy when I went to my prenatal yoga class. I saw a sheet of paper pinned to a bulletin board, and on it was printed the following poem.

The Guest House

This being human is a guest house.
Every morning a new arrival.

A joy, a depression, a meanness,
some momentary awareness comes
as an unexpected visitor.

Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they are a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your house
empty of its furniture,
still, treat each guest honorably.
He may be clearing you out
for some new delight.

The dark thought, the shame, the malice.
meet them at the door laughing and invite them in.

Be grateful for whatever comes.
because each has been sent
as a guide from beyond.

— Jellaludin Rumi


After reading the poem, I chose to put it into practice. My yoga teacher once told the class that emotions, just like labor pain, come and go like a wave. The premise is to treat anxious thoughts like a guest.

Invite the emotion in, welcome it instead of pushing it away. Observe it with curiosity instead of trying to avoid it. And let it go as opposed to fearing anxiety and desperately trying to rid yourself of feeling anxious (which actually makes it worse because then you spiral into those ruminating thoughts that start spinning in your head and where you feel you have lost control. See, told you, I knew what I was talking about :D)

In fact, in moments of anxiety, I would actually envision a scene, where anxiety takes a human form (like a decrepit, weak, trembling, scared old man) knocking on my door and I picture myself inviting him in a cozy, warm living room with a fireplace.


I proceed to ask him to take a seat and stay for tea and we sit for a while. It might sound cuckoo, but don’t knock it until you’ve tried it. It may take some practice and your own twist to it but the more you get comfortable with your uncomfortable emotions like anxiety, sadness, anger, etc. the more you have a handle on them and then they stop controlling you.

You are always in control of the way you feel. Anxiety can happen to everyone at some point. Slow down when it happens. Slow down your thoughts. Don’t fear it. Acknowledge it. And always breathe and keep breathing… inevitably, the guest will decide to leave you be.

How do you keep your anxious thoughts in check?


With Thanksgiving weekend here (well, at least in Canada, that is) I figured it would be fun to remind everyone of how truly beneficial it is to have a grateful heart.

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Here are my top 5 reasons why gratefulness should be a priority for all:

  1. IT MAKES YOU HEALTHIER: Keeping a gratitude journal and writing in it a few minutes each day can actually make you healthier. A study conducted in 2003 by Emmons and McCullough demonstrated that participants who partook in a habit of being grateful benefited from far more health benefits than those who did not. The grateful participants spent 19% more time exercising, they had a 25% increase in sleep quality, and they reported 10% fewer physical symptoms over the study time period.woman-standing
  2. IT MAKES YOU MORE LIKEABLE: Multiple studies have shown that grateful attitude brings about pro-social behavior. Ask yourself: Would you rather hang out with a cheerful person who is grateful for what they have or a person complaining about what they don’t have in this lifetime!? Keeping a gratitude journal is enough to make you more likely to help others with their problems and makes you more likely to offer them emotional support. Let’s just say it puts your “empathy-motor” into overdrive 😀


  1. IT MAKES YOU LOOK GOOD: Ingratitude is universally looked upon with contempt. Gratitude, on the other hand, is considered a virtue in all major religions and most modern cultures. It takes a strong person to acknowledge that they didn’t get to where they are all on their own – that without others they may never have made it. People like being acknowledged. We all do and we tend to like those who acknowledge us and see them in a more positive, attractive light. Mae West
  2. IT HELPS YOU CRUSH GOALS: In one study, participants were asked to write down those goals which they wished to accomplish over the next two months. Those who were instructed to keep a gratitude journal reported more progress on achieving their goals at the end of the study. In fact, how gratitude works is that you become more aware of how, when things don’t go your way, you can still find a way to learn from the experience or not be discouraged by it and move past it faster.80s-fitness-fashion-girls-8
  3. IT MAKES YOU HAPPIER: Ultimately, if you sleep better, look better (as a benefit of exercising more), have more people like you (given your friendlier nature), you will be happier. Imagine, how a small change, done consistently over time, like entering a few lines of some of the things that you are grateful for can lead you to your happier better life!

Why not start now, and write down below what you are grateful for?

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Why Hitting the Snooze Button can Kill

…your peak productivity.

OK, now that I have your attention, I want to let you in on an important fact that I recently learned about snoozing. Take it from an ex-professional snoozer like myself, I thought you might find it interesting to know that bypassing the alarm once, twice, three, fifty times may actually be detrimental to your health. Let me give you the deets…

I’m sure you already knew that getting a good night’s sleep works wonders on your productivity level but did you also know that how you wake up is equally important? Based on neurology studies, scientists have discovered that hitting the snooze button actually has a negative impact on brain function and productivity… and furthermore did you know that the effects can last up to four hours!!! Now, that might explain my blanking out at the last work status meeting (just kidding!… then again…)


Here’s how it works. We sleep in cycles, right? Usually each cycles runs 90 to 100 minutes to complete (kinda like charging our Smartphones). About two hours before you wake up, these sleep cycles end and your body starts to slowly prepare to wake up. When your alarm rings, your body is in wakeup mode, ready to go (even if your brain isn’t). If you hit the snooze button and drift back to sleep, you force your brain to start a new sleep 90 to 110 minute long sleep cycle. Then when the snooze alarm goes off 15 minutes later, the cortical region of your brain responsible for decision-making, alertness, attention, and self-control, is still in the sleep mode! It won’t be able to snap back awake so easily – it would – get this – take another 75 minutes to finish what that snooze button started.

Read more on the effects of snoozing

After that, it can take up to four hours for the grogginess, sleep fog feeling to subside and for your cognitive functions to return to their full capacity. Wowzer, right? So now, you’re probably thinking, sh*t how many years did I shave off my life by snoozing???!!! Don’t worry, there are ways to remedy this problem.

woman waking up happy

Here are some tips to avoid hitting the snooze button the first time the alarm goes off:

  1. DON’T TOUCH THE SNOOZE BUTTON. Get up. Not negotiable. It may take some practice but IT CAN BE DONE!
  2. GO TO BED EARLIER. If not getting enough sleep is the problem, set a bedtime for yourself. Or do what I would do when I did postpartum, go to bed when the kids go to bed. It might suck at first but you’ll feel so much better in the morning. The average adult needs between 7 and 9 hours of sleep per night, take that into account to set your bed time. Plus, your iPhone has a cool Bedtime feature in your Clock app that can help you stay on top of your bed time and set you up with a bed time alarm too!
  3. TURN OFF ALL SCREENS at least 1 hour before bed for a deep, restful sleep. That’s right, no more Netflix binge watching, or late-night social media trolling 😛 Read an actual paper book, magazine or get your meditation on always helps.
  4. PUT YOUR ALARM CLOCK ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE ROOM to avoid the temptation to hit the snooze button once the alarm goes off in the morning.
  5. HAVE KIDS*, trust me, either you won’t have a choice to get up to feed/hold/sing to them once they start crying (unfortunately they DON’T COME with a snooze button) or you will want to get up before them just to get some peace and quiet 😛

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How many times do you hit the snooze button before getting up?

(*Try option 5 only once all other options have been exhausted. is not responsible for any births resulting from reading this post. ;P)

10 Healthy Snacks When Hunger Hits

Since we are always looking for great healthy snack ideas to keep our energy levels up and fend off the unhealthy munchies, I wanted to share with you a post from a very cool, fellow health blogger: Helene Choo (creator of HC Lifestyle Blog). Enjoy!

Hi! I’m Helene, creator of the HC Lifestyle Blog, where I write about travel, health/fitness, and food. All the glorious food. I’m a big snacker, always have been, but recently, I’ve been trying to eat healthier. It’s made a huge difference in my overall fitness levels! However, once in awhile, I still get this desire to snack, so I try to at least eat something healthy-ish instead of fatty, sugary things. Here’s my list of healthy(ish), guilt-free snacks.

Avocado Toast
avocadoThere’s nothing like the good ol’ avo. Admit it, it’s your favourite vegetable (is it even a vegetable??). Avocado toast is very versatile, you can pair it with just about anything: egg, smoked salmon, feta cheese,… The possibilities are endless. Just make sure you’re having wholegrain brown bread with it, and you’ll be a-ok.

Here are some ideas for avocado toast recipes!


 fruitI tend to grab a banana if I’m feeling really hungry, because it’s so filling and it takes no effort to prepare (unless you count peeling a banana as effort, in which case, you are LAZY). Again, there are so many yummy fruits out there. Also ideal if you’re craving something sweet. If you feel like just the fruit is too plain, pair it with some yoghurt. Which brings me to the next one.

Greek Yoghurt

 greek yogourtGet imaginative! As mentioned before, you can pair it with fruit, a coulis (that’s mashed up fruit), oats, muesli…I like to have it with some honey and banana to make it sweet and flavourful. Say it with me: mmmmmmh! The frozen variation is also great in the summer.


Need ideas for toppings? Here you go🙂


oatsI’m kind of in the process of deconstructing a smoothie bowl here, aren´t I! Oats can be made lots of different ways. For example, if you don’t feel in the mood for warm oatmeal, you can make overnight oats, which are just as yummy and filling, and make an excellent snack.

Find some overnight oat recipes right here.


smoothiesTechnically more of a drink than a food, but they can be really really filling if you put the right things in them. Again, let your imagination run wild! Any combination of a base (juice or dairy), fruit (as many different types as you want), cereal (or oats), and extra things (protein powder, almond butter, etc.) will give you a much-needed boost. And I promise, you won’t feel hungry after that.

Here’s the BBC Goodfood page for smoothie recipes for inspiration!



Nuts are a great source of healthy fats. Just try to get unsalted ones, so you don’t overdose on sodium. Find out which types you like, or just get a bag of mixed nuts.



Veggies and Hummus

veggiesI love doing this. Celery and carrots make excellent dipping veggies. The hummus gives it flavour, and some texture. You can do the same with guacamole (don’t quote me on that, that’s just my invention), or avocado hummus. Or any flavour hummus, for that matter. All the hummus. Yum.


Want to make different types of hummus? Check here!


 eggsWhy not make an omelette, hardboiled eggs, or poached eggs (goes really well with avocado toast)! Eggs are a good source of protein. I just have them with some herb salt, but you can season them any way you want, with tabasco, or by adding some cheese.

Here are some egg recipes for you to try, some simpler, some more complex.




Not the microwave kind. Get the kernels, and pop it yourself, so that you can control how much salt/sugar goes on there.



Dark chocolate

 dark chocolateI’m sure you know by now, but dark chocolate (> 60% cocoa)  is wayyyy healthier than its milk or white counterparts. It even has some health benefits. So, nothing wrong with breaking out the dark choc when you’re craving a little something sweet.


I hope you enjoyed this list of healthy snacks you can have when you get hungry throughout the day. Isn’t it great to know that there are alternatives to the usual crisps and chocolate bars that we’re conditioned to reach for?

If you have any questions or comments, please let me know! It would be great to see you all over at my blog or to connect with you on social media.

All the best,

 Helene xx

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Believe it or not, for those who didn’t know me before my 40’s revolution, I wasn’t always into fitness. In fact, I actually shunned exercise and didn’t understand what all the fuss was about.

I mean, I knew it was good for you in a general sense but always imagined you had to be a professional athlete or someone who worked out for hours on end to reap the full benefits. Until last year, I didn’t realize that exercise not only helps you feel more energetic and stronger but it has tremendous impact on your perception of the world. Those endorphins hold a powerful punch!


Since last year, I had a lot of people come to me and tell me those same things I used to say to myself and how I used to perceive exercise and those who partook in such a “crazy” thing. Here’s a sneak peak interview into the workings of my old-self brain and the changes to my new self…

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OLD ME: Why do you post your workout on social media? People who post their workouts on social media are so full of themselves. Oh wow! You sweat, look at you all getting healthy. What are you trying to prove? Give me a break, eat a hamburger!

NEW ME: Although I can see how annoying it may seem, I do it because after years of rolling my eyes at an old colleague who used to post her fitness workouts online, I finally reached out to her to see what she was doing ‘cause she looked so darn good and happy. And her “annoying” posts actually got me to do something and start moving. So although I felt uncomfortable posting at first, and still feel a little self conscious from time to time, I tell myself, if I can motivate ONE single person to do something good for their health and themselves, then it’s all worth it! And imma gonna keep postin’ that sh*t! 😀

OLD ME: Oh no, have you been brainwashed by a pyramid scheme company and now want to sell me a bunch of health stuff I don’t need?

NEW ME: Nah. I got my hands full with a full-time job and two small kids at home. Ain’t got time to stalk you into scam. To tell you the truth, I became a Beachbody coach to stay accountable and by setting an example for others, I can’t just skip workouts or eat crap all the time. And now, it’s become a hobby. I love running challenge groups and seeing people motivated to workout and change their bad eating habits. Heck, whether you do a Beachbody workout or another type of workout, the important thing for me is to see people make some positive changes to their lives. I just picked Beachbody because everything is organized for you: your workout calendar, meal plans and your own coach. This works for me and for many but if this ain’t the right fit for you, I encourage you to find something that works. You will be happy you did.

OLD ME: I can’t do what you do, I have a full-time job, kids, bad knees, bad back, etc.?

NEW ME: Hellooooooo, so do I. I have realized that it’s really about finding a formula that works for you. I work full-time so I make sure to get my workout in first thing in the morning, before work, even if that means waking up at 5am before the kids. My right wrist is weak so I do my pushups on my knees, then again, my knees are weak too, so some moves I step them out instead of jumping. I go at my pace and listen to my body. As they say, if you really want something you find a way, or else you find excuses!

OLD ME: Those fitness programs don’t work, I tried them for a couple of weeks and I didn’t lose any weight and maybe even gained weight!

NEW ME: Beachbody programs, unlike other diet programs, aren’t quick fixes. Quick fixes DON’T WORK on the long term anyway. These programs are meant to fit into your lifestyle. You need to find your groove and see how you can fit 30 minutes of working out and cutting out crap from your diet and eat within your calorie range… it’s simple… not easy but simple. I lost 4 measly pounds the first month. Then 2 the month after that, then didn’t lose any weight for another 2 months, etc… but kept going and lost in my sixth month in. Weight loss is not consistent and life happens, we sometimes get sidetracked and that is fine but you stay consistent and you stick to it and that’s when you start seeing results on all levels.

healthy lifestyle

So if you see yourself in the old me, give me a shout, I’d love to see if I can help you out to reach a new You! What’s your excuse not to?


Last week I started running again.

After my short-lived running career back in March of this year, running fell by the wayside. But sometimes running away from something always manages to bite you in the a** until you deal with it once and for all. And I must admit that in the past few months, there have been one too many signs signaling me that this was the right time to start again and this is what I needed to do. For years, I wanted to run a 5k and when I suddenly got a text last week from a lovely friend asking me to join her in the Rock n’ Roll Run on September 23rd; I “5-second-ruled-it” and said, without hesitation, YESSS! That’s not true, I hesitated for a split second but answered YES anyways 😀

I knew I was starting and I would need to train if I wanted to run a 5K without injury (physically and ego-wise; nothing worse than a bruised ego :P). I felt ready. What I wasn’t ready for was all the mean girl talk that occurred once I actually got started!


ME (Day 1): Ok, let’s do this!

After one minute… this is cool, I love being outside! It feels good to start again. The fresh air, morning breeze, …

Three minutes later… Ok, why am I tired? I need to walk. My legs are feeling heavy. I workout almost everyday why do I suck at this? I was never good at running, what makes me think I will be good now. In high school I came last for the 1.5km, that was so embarrassing! I don’t know if I can do this. Ok, shush, let’s start running again…

After 5 minutes: Man, running is hard! I hope I don’t hurt myself. What if I have to walk to whole way? Why am I so slow? I suck at this. I can’t back out now, I gave my word. People will think I’m a fake, posting all those workout selfies and I can’t even run a 5k. Anyone can run a 5k!… except me.

Minute 8: Ok, I’m resting, I need a time out. Why am I so hard on myself? Stop being hard on yourself. So what if they laugh at me? Oh no, my husband and my kids will be there. They’ll want me to go faster. But I’ll be tired and achy. I don’t want them to see me like that. Arghhhhhhhh!

Minute 10: Ok I’m running a bit more and then I’m done. I have no clue how I’m going to get better. I just don’t see it.

Minute 14: ok. I’m done.

After that, I got back home, and feeling disappointed in my run. Duhhhhhhhh!


But as all experiences are lessons in disguise, I chose to look back at my run that morning. Hey, I figured it would make a great blog post! And also see what I could change for my next practice run.

I write and talk about positive mindset and here I was getting sucked into the same inner mean talk we often give ourselves when we attempt something new. However, once you become mindful of that, you can change it. It probably won’t happen overnight and that mean girl might still be lurking in a dark corner of the coils of that brain of yours and pop out when you least expect her, but you CAN change your thoughts over time.

As I was writing down what I was thinking during my run, I was surprised. It suddenly dawned on me that I would never say those things to someone I cared about who wanted to take up running! …then why do I say them to myself?

Next run, I will focus on the fact that I got the discipline to get out there and run, no matter how slow I go. I showed up! Nothing happens overnight, I will get better, it is inevitable. And if all else fails, well, it takes slow runners to make fast runners look good. So you’re welcome! 😀

36894c78be9edba1d3f8b57d722817f1--running-motivation-fitness-motivationAs for all of us, next time, you start a new job, sport, hobby, whatever it is… remember that the negative self-talk is probably our egos trying to protect us in a way to make us quit and return to our comfort zone. But it is by moving out of your comfort zone that growth occurs and you get to experience what life is all about.

Be kind to yourself. Be brave. AND shush that inner mean girl with your positive vibes! You’ll always come out a winner, in the end.

How do you deal with negative self-talk?


Anyone else feel like September is a new beginning, a fresh start?

Summer is winding down, the air is getting cooler, the light outside shines a spot on the fact that it’s time to get back to business. And by business I mean more discipline with our health and mindset goals. While Summertime is slacker heaven, Autumn is time to get workin’.

When I was in school, every year around this time, I used to get excited for all the new possibilities of the school year. I vowed to myself that I would study regularly and work on my assignments when the teacher would give them instead of the day before it was due. I looked forward to cracking open that new agenda with all those blank spaces and dates to be filled with new experiences.

Setting “Back to school” resolutions is a fun and practical way to keep you accountable without leaving you feeling guilty if you haven’t stuck with your New Year’s resolutions… This is like a second chance!



  • NOW IS YOUR CHANCE TO MAKE YOUR COMEBACK: September is a chance to start over and learn from the first half of the year. Think of the first half as a rehearsal or practice and now you are ready to tackle and crush your goals once and for all. Plan out the next 3 months. Since you have a smaller window of time, set goals that you feel you can achieve in that timeframe. It will only encourage you to keep going.


  • GET BACK IN THE GAME AND GO FOR THE WIN: If you had a health goal like losing weight, or eating healthy and have fallen off track, here is your chance to get back in the game. You know what they say: THE COMEBACK IS ALWAYS GREATER THAN THE SETBACK!


  • IT HELPS TO REEVALUATE YOUR PRIORITIES: Ok, so Summertime sent a curve ball in your healthy eating plans but now is the best time to get back to healthy eating habits. Plus, think of all the delicious veggies and flavors in season this time of year. Fall recipes are the ultimate comfort food, think warm butternut squash soups and apples and cinnamon… yummmm!


  • YOU WILL FEEL MORE IN CONTROL: Getting back in the game will make you feel like you have taken back control over your life. You are ready to crush those goals and not let the Summertime setback get in the way of your focus.

If you feel you need help getting back to your health goals, join my Challenge Group (Get your Badass Into Shape) starting August 27th, 2017. It’s a 30-day challenge group where you choose one of many Beachbody programs that you can stream from anywhere and get to chat and share your struggles, tips & advice, recipes, workout questions and wins with a group of like-minded individuals and ME as your coach, in a private Facebook group. If you are interested, all you have to do is enter your information below and I will contact you to give you more details. Looking forward to seeing you there!

Open your eyes: What do you see from your window?

“If you just open your eyes and your mind you will realize that amazing things, events and people surround us Every. Waking. Moment.”

I work in a downtown highrise. I am lucky to have an office with a window. I get to see the sunlight brighten my work space everyday. It isn’t a corner office. It isn’t a big office either, in fact I share my office with another colleague. Yet all this time, I never thought much of this office space. I always compared it to my past offices that were bigger and with better views of downtown Montreal or so i thought…

Fairmont Queen Elizabeth hotel

You see, what i neglected to say was that my office window faces the Fairmont Queen Elizabeth hotel and peers directly into the window where John Lennon and Yoko Ono held their bed-in for Peace in 1969. A moment that changed history forever. A time that was marked by change and people who fought for what they believed in. Strong souls that made history and the place where the ever historical and popular song “Give Peace a Chance” was born. A song heard many times over in different parts of the world and cultures, all voicing sounds of optimism for a better world.


One can say that the view from my office stares at a grey hotel building with a bunch of windows but that’s not the way I see it anymore. My view is one of hope and dreams. One that inspires me to be and give my best everyday as a human being. To live my life to its fullest because people that are no longer among us would trade places with my most dullest day any second.

There are wonders all around us if we choose to see them.

You may say I’m a dreamer
But I’m not the only one
I hope someday you’ll join us
And the world will live as one…

-John Lennon (Imagine)

Now, Imagine that 😉

I would love for you to tell me or post a picture below of your view today!


I did it! I thought it was impossible but I did it! And you know what? It wasn’t that hard at all! The day after we came back home from Italy, I stepped on the scale, afraid to look down and, lo and behold, it didn’t budge! No weight gain! Woohoo! All was not lost!

Just to put you in context: Two weeks ago, my husband along with our two (toddler; yikes!) kids, decided to join my parents who had rented a house in Campodipietra; my mother’s small native village in Italy. We figured it would be an amazing experience to be all together in such a beautiful, amazing country.

Of course, one aspect that makes Italy so amazing is THE food! Fresh: YES! Delicious: YES! Loaded with carbs: YES, YES, YES! I mean every single menu had 30 different kinds of pasta plates and pizza flavors and don’t even get me started on the gelato! Of course, pasta was just the primo piatto (first course), then you usually have a secondo piatto (second course), between the antipasto and dessert of course.That’s just the way it is!

Italy food

So how did I manage to defeat this whole food game?

My initial plan was to workout a few times per week and to limit desserts and pasta. I even downloaded several Beachbody workouts on my iPhone and made sure I didn’t need any equipment to do them. I made a mental list of foods I would eat and avoid and how I would only have pasta once a week. Well, all that went out the window the first day as soon as we arrived at my parents’. They graciously greeted us with freshly made pizza (still hot from the local bakery), prosciutto and mortadella, fresh melon and cherries, mozzarella buffalo,… the works! Everything tasted soooo good.

So how did I do it???… I’m getting there…

Here’s the simple truth: I slowed down my pace of life and I enjoyed every moment.

Bakery Italy

I savored each morsel. I experienced the food without stuffing it down my throat. It was all about how we are suppose to eat and live. Too often, we are rushed, grab anything at hand and go. We eat food to stop the hunger or craving or to have something to do while mindlessly watching a movie. But what we forget to do is to take the time to taste the food, to experience it and to listen to our bodies.

In Italy, we rarely watched TV. We walked, we played in the park with the kids. We rested when came time for siesta and all the village closed its shops. And we ate when we were hungry. We were following our bodies instead of being distracted by external hunger cues.

Here are a few tips and tricks that I took with me as a reminder of this experience:

  • Share a decadent dessert instead of having a whole one.
  • Order a bunch of different plates for the family and have a taste of each.
  • Walk, walk, walk and enjoy all the beautiful views and landscapes
  • Follow your appetite not whatever tempts you, listen to your body, don’t eat out of boredom.
  • Enjoy yourself! That’s what makes life so wonderful. Once in a while, it is important to let it go. To go with the flow.
  • Girls and me in Italy

The lesson that I learned is that a couple of weeks of vacation will not destroy all the work you did if you go at it with balance. Have a few drinks, indulge in that dessert and when you get back, learn from your experience and go back to your fitness routine and be mindful that life is about enjoying the little things and finding balance in everything.

How are you planning to enjoy your vacation?


Are you working out tirelessly and still not seeing results? You eat healthy, you workout… and nothing! What gives? Then you turn to external excuses such as a slow metabolism or your age or the fact that you had kids for your failure to lose weight and proceed to sabotage your diet.

Mae West

STOP MAKING EXCUSES: weight loss is a numbers game (in its most basic sense): you must burn more calories than you consume in order for weight loss to occur. PERIOD. (ooooh I know there’s some hatin’ going on in your head right now! Please don’t shoot the messenger).

If you still don’t believe me, prove me wrong! Get a journal or download a calorie tracker app such as MyFitness Pal or Lose it. Start by calculating your daily caloric intake based on your current lifestyle some apps have these tools or just click here to calculate .


Now jot down EVERYTHING you eat, including that bite you took out of your kid’s plate, that spoonful of tomato sauce you ate just to make sure it was just-right, that sip of wine you had from your husband’s glass. It all counts and it all adds up.

Like I said, it’s a numbers game, here’s how…

In order to gain 1 pound you must eat 3500 calories, sounds like a lot, right? Now look at it this way: If you eat just 115 calories extra a day (above your set caloric intake, without exercising) for one whole month, you will gain about 1 pound; no biggie, right? You do this for a whole year, by the end of the year you will have gained 12 pounds. How did that happen?????? Your clothes are fitting tighter. Your weight gain occurred even though you probably didn’t even realize you were eating that extra 115 calories per day.

What is 115 calories:

  • a medium sized apple,
  • a cup of grapes,
  • a quarter cup of trail mix,
  • 1 oz of cheese,
  • 13 almonds…

..and these are all healthy foods! In terms of junk food: it’s like having less than 2 oreos, half a chocolate bar, a quarter of a muffin, (less than) a serving of small fries at McDonald’s.


Now, let’s use the same principle as above but looking at weight loss. To lose 1 pound you need to burn approximately 3500 calories. If you don’t want to feel deprived and are not pressed for time, try cutting 115 calories per day from your daily caloric intake. You will lose 1 pound in one month.

Doesn’t seem too exciting but let’s try this: Say you have a muffin or fancy drink every day, that is way more than 100 calories for sure, maybe 300 calories at best. Slash 300 calories from your diet and in a month you have lost 2.5 pounds in one month, which equals 15 pounds after 6 months of simply making a small change.

Now, if you slash 300 calories and add a workout everyday (which burns about 200 calories) for a total of 500 calorie burn, then you will lose 4.3 pounds per month. Keep this up for 6 months and you are looking at a weight loss of 26 pounds! Wowzer!!!!! Not to shabby, right!

Please keep in mind that while rockin’ a bikini after losing weight definitely feels amazing, there are real benefits to slashing unneeded calories from your diet. Did you know that by eating extra quantities of food, whether it is healthy or not, makes your system and organs work double time. The digestion, hormone secretion and elimination process our bodies have to go through to eliminate and process those calories puts tremendous pressure on our bodily functions.

Eating extra quantities of food on a regular basis not only can lead to weight gain but to so many other illnesses such as heart disease, high blood pressure, increased inflammation and even cancer. Let’s take care of our bodies and give ourselves a change to live a long, happy life.

Contact me if you would like to join me in my Fitness Motivation Group and let’s get healthy!



Motivation is a finicky concept. When starting a new fitness program we are unstoppable! We feel like we can take over any goal. We are bursting with energy, we are trying things we never did before, we are excited to learn new things. This lasts about several weeks, then it starts getting old. We skip a workout one day, then two, then slack on our diet… before we know it, an entire week has gone by and we have reverted to our old habits. So how do we keep motivation alive?

First, know that it is completely normal NOT to be motivated ALL the time! Instead picture motivation like a wave. There are peaks and there are lows and you just have to ride the wave. Here are some tips on helping you get your motivation back on track.

Don’t lose perspective of your WHY

When you feel less motivated, remember why you started the program in the first place. Was it to have more energy to play with your kids or to live a healthy lifestyle so you can be around for a long time. I find visualizing your success extremely helpful. If you are a visual person, try putting a photo or image where you can easily see it on a daily basis as a reminder or create a vision board of your goals. If you are more auditory, write out a mantra or phrase that you can repeat to yourself to keep you going when the going gets tough.

Remember your WHY

Go through the motions: Fake it ‘til you make it

One thing I have learned recently is that when motivation lacks it is not a reason to quit. Although you don’t feel like working out or making another meal plan, just do it anyways! Don’t overthink it. When we overthink something we already lack motivation doing, we tend to find reasons to talk ourselves out of doing it. Fake motivation, this is where discipline steps in. When motivation lacks, let discipline take over. And before you know it, motivation will make its way back, guaranteed.


Accept that you will not always be motivated…

Some days or weeks might seem harder than others but instead of quitting, show up and you will see that it will come back. When you accept and acknowledge this, you learn to see your level of motivation as a gage and see if there is anything you can do differently. Instead of taking it as a cue to give up, take it as an opportunity to try something new or change it up a bit. Maybe try a new fitness workout (there are so many out there, so many apps and if you have all-access Beachbody on Demand, then you have no excuses not to try something different) or spice things up with your meal prep. Try new foods, new moves, push a little harder, take up a new sport, etc.

Just rest assured that the feeling will eventually pass and before you know it your motivation will come back.


Join a Challenge Group for Accountability

People who have an accountability partner or join a challenge group have greater success of sticking to a program and losing weight. In fact, according to a 2011 study published in Psychology of Sport, the dropout rate if you have a fitness buddy or support system is as low as 6.8%, hence 93.2% success rate in sticking to your program for a year! In fact, that’s what was the game changer for me when I joined Beachbody. My coach was amazing and her challenge groups just reinforced the positive energy and the healthy habits I was instilling in my own life. That’s also what pushed me become a coach myself! So much positive energy, you have no excuses not to workout and change those unhealthy habits.

So, if you are feeling a little unmotivated these days or don’t know where to start, join me in my upcoming Challenge Group: Shape up for Summer! And see your motivation soar!

Summer Shape

Tell me, how do you stay motivated?

Celebrating your Non-Scale Victories!

You know the feeling when you set your mind on getting healthy and over the course of several weeks, you’ve been giving your all by working out, skimping on treats and opting for clean eats and, as a results, you feel great, walk in a room with more confidence! Then, one day, you cheerfully step on the scale to quantify your success… and boom! WHAT THE F**K?!? The number is not what you expected to see, it may have even gone up! (I used to change the battery every time this happened! Couldn’t be me, naaaaah!)


Now you feel like sh*t! You are hopeless, feel like all the work you invested didn’t amount to anything and are ready to throw in the towel. This is what would happen to me over and over again. This is what happens to most people who follow a program and start to commit to a healthy lifestyle. We want results fast! Why haven’t I Iost 2/5/10 pounds, I’ve been eating healthy for 5 days now!?!? Why don’t my abs show, I have been doing my sit-ups for a whole week?!? We all have these thoughts when we are starting out. They are normal thoughts and we shouldn’t beat ourselves up for having them. You have worked hard. It takes superpowers sometimes to say NO to that delicious ooey-gooey chocolatey brownie your co-worker has just offered you.

So what gives? Where are the results?

In the first several weeks of starting a program, our bodies are adapting. We may have started weight training, which pumps the muscles with blood as they are getting stronger. We may be upping our water intake, so we may be having more water weight for a while, our hormones are also adapting to the chemical changes occurring when eating healthy clean foods. During this time, your muscles are getting stronger. Your heart is pumping more blood and getting active, your blood pressure is adjusting and circulation is improving.

After a couple of weeks…

  • You start feeling more energized.
  • You are in a better mood.
  • Clothes are fitting differently, better.
  • You are starting to see some definition in your legs/arms/stomach.
  • You sleep better.
  • You are more motivated to do more at work and in your workouts.
  • You can run, jump, squat with more endurance.
  • You workout out regularly and are enjoying it.
  • You have more control over your cravings.
  • You start having a more positive mindset.
  • You up your water intake.
  • You make better food choices at home and in restaurants.
  • You meal plan for the week.
  • You eat within your calorie range.
  • You have more energy to keep up with the kids.
  • Your immune system is stronger.
  • You are more in-tune with your body.
  • You are more focused at work.
  • You feel less stressed.

These are all examples of NON-SCALE VICTORIES (NSV)! We need to celebrate these NSVs and be proud of our accomplishments (regardless of the number on the scale).

I had one challenger that committed to a program and during the 4-week challenge lost only 2 pounds on the scale but lost 11 inches in total when she took her measurements again! In my case, I have remained the same weight since the holidays but my arms and stomach are more defined now. Keep in mind: Muscle does not weigh more than fat. One pound of fat is the same as one pound of muscle but it’s denser! It takes up less space, your body is leaner even if you weigh a couple of pounds more!


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Let’s make a pact and stop fretting about that number on the scale. Instead, let’s show the scale who’s boss and measure success by how we feel, our energy level, our happiness level, our confidence level that we can do anything we put our minds to.


Share you’re non-scale victory and let’s celebrate together!

You Don’t have to be Mother fuckin’ Theresa to Change the World

(Note: This was written way before I started watching Thirteen Reasons Why, strange coincidence but I’ll flow with it!)


These past few weeks I came to realize something amazing. I realized that sometimes the smallest, tiniest, almost insignificant acts of kindness can have the biggest impacts on people’s lives. We never know what battles the other person is trying to overcome or which demons they are battling but, though they may seem insignificant to us, everyday gestures of kindness can go a long way. These small gestures are just as easy to do as they are not to do them. But when done, a whole world can change for the better and doesn’t it feel good that you had a part in that?!

Here’s a 30-day Kindness Challenge. Do one action each day and make a difference in someone’s life… and you will notice a difference in your own life.

Day 1: Call/text/email an old friend out of the blue to simply ask them how they are doing.

Day 2: Give up your seat for someone (anyone!) in a packed bus/metro/train.

Day 3: Tell someone they are doing a good job (it can be anyone: a child, a spouse, a co-worker, a colleague, a sales clerk,…)

Day 4: When at a coffee shop or food counter, pay for the coffee or drink of the person behind you.

Day 5: Post a positive message or quote on social media.

Day 6: Bring an extra fruit, sandwich, granola bar, etc. in your lunch bag and give it to someone in need.

Day 7: Send a funny picture to a friend.

Day 8: Genuinely listen to someone when they are talking, without interrupting.

Day 9: Write a positive online review of a business you like (or blog ;).

Day 10: Leave a copy of an interesting book on a train / bus.

Day 11: Leave nice comments on blogs (wink! wink!), Twitter, and Facebook

Day 12: Participate in an event – The people who organize events always worry that no one will take part. That ugly sweater contest needs you!

Day 13: Leave a nice server the biggest tip you can afford.

Day 14: Put a sticky note with a positive slogan on the mirror in a restroom.

Day 15: Write your partner/child/parent/sibling a list of things you love about them.

Day 16: Bring your neighbor some cookies. Everybody loves cookies!

Day 17: Donate clothes you are no longer wearing to a charity or a foundation.

Day 18: Help someone with a stroller up/down a flight of stairs.

Day 19: Praise the work of a colleague to their boss.

Day 20: Make someone laugh by telling them a funny joke or story.

Day 21: Buy a lottery ticket for a random stranger.

Day 22: Set a date to spend some time with a long lost friend you would like to re-connect with.

Day 23: Bring some treats to work.

Day 24: Call an elderly family member and ask them how they are doing.

Day 25: Invite a friend or parent or sibling for a casual home cooked supper during the work week

Day 26: Start a conversation with a sales or service rep that you encounter everyday

Day 27: Put a secret not in a loved one’s pocket. Write how much you appreciate them.

Day 28: Take a family member out to lunch out of the blue, for no particular occasion.

Day 29: First thing on a weekday morning, slow down your routine and dance with your partner or your kids.

Day 30: Give a sincere compliment to someone about a piece of clothing, hairstyle, shoes, manners, etc.

Sometimes we think of doing or saying something nice but are too shy to express it. I’m asking you to change that and see what happens. It’s important to let others know that somebody notices and cares, it can brighten someone’s day or even change the whole course of their lives.

Bonus: Day 31: Love yourself and give yourself a big hug! You need some kindness too so be good to yourself.


Do you have Executive Presence?

A few weeks ago I had the privilege to attend a workshop called In Search of Executive Presence. The workshop was given by the inspiring and motivating Shann McGrail. Shann is the co-founder of DEVREVE, a company that specializes in developing communication strategies to help businesses connect with customers, partners, and employees (amongst other things). In the workshop, Shann explained the principles of Executive Presence: that secret ingredient that can propel you forward in your career, in your life and enable you to crush all your goals!

If you want to stop  being “that girl” that didn’t get the promotion or the job because there was that “little something” missing, read the following tips Shann shared with us:

Stand in Neutral: Want to convey a calm, powerful presence? Stand in Neutral. How you ask? Stand up – plant your feet hip width apart. Put your hands above your head, and then let them drop to your side. Where they land is what your standing natural neutral position. This will likely seem uncomfortable at first. Practice it while standing in line at the grocery store, waiting to get coffee etc. And notice your fan base bow to you (Just kidding! Or am I?)


Three second rule: A lot of us (meaning ME) tend to start talking and forget to take a breath when presenting or conversing. Give yourself three second to respond before answering in a conversation. When presenting to an audience, practice holding eye contact for three seconds per person (if a large room, per area of the room). This projects confidence and builds connection.

Commit: An audience never wants to watch uncertainty. They want to experience commitment and see that you enjoy what you are doing. Here’s an exercise to try – pick something that you have to do. Let’s say it’s going to the bank to discuss your mortgage. Before you step in the door – commit to a position. Maybe you’re excited that you are getting your first mortgage – go with that and hold on to that emotion for the meeting. See everything that comes up in the meeting with excitement.

“I’m Awesome”. Cut the negative talk – it is a waste of time and energy. Here is a simple exercise – leave your next meeting or work function and repeat to yourself “I’m awesome” (or any other positive phrase that clicks with you) at least 3 times and keep in your mind one great thing you did. Take out the space the negative takes up and replace it with positive.

Positive Thoughts

Be Brief, be quiet and learn to interrupt: cut down the number of words you to use. We are conditioned to often fall into “hostess mode” and make small talk so others feel comfortable. The more words you speak to explain, the more you confuse your message. Get to the point, you don’t need to explain the journey. Try this – select a topic, engage a colleague/friend and have a conversation using only 3 words each time you speak. Play around with this and you will notice you can get to the point in far fewer words than we normally use.

Silence is powerful. If you can keep quiet during a difficult moment, it conveys that you are in control. It is especially powerful when there are tough messages or you say something that needs to land and be processed.


Breathe – Exercise: put your hand on the top part of abdomen, deep breath in so that you are pushing out the rib cage. Slowly release on a count of 5. Inhale deeply so that the chest and stomach are filled with air. Calms and quiets you down so you can focus. It also forces you to use silence.

I stepped out of the workshop with a tool box that I knew I could put into practice right away, and I have! The workshop has given me an extra boost of confidence to put my ideas across effectively in meetings and presentations (and when I want to get my kids to clean their room :P).

Click here if you are interested in learning more about this workshop or would like to contact Shann McGrail at DEVREVE.





Waking up at 5am… on purpose!

I love to sleep. No, I mean, I really love to sleep. I almost make an art out of it. I lay quiet in bed. Feel the covers on me, get all cozy and warm. Drift off into oblivion. Let go of everything. It’s truly blissful.

sleep and baby

However, after weeks of not being able to get my workout in before the end of my busy work day, my coach suggested I get it done first thing in the morning before leaving for work. I seriously thought she was crazyyyyyy! Not just crazy. CRAAAAAAAAAAZYYYYYYYYYY! Who gets up on purpose at 5am, and, get this, to work out of all things! Well… THIS GIRL!

I told myself I would do it for one week and if I didn’t like it I would NEVER do it again. I clearly remember that first morning. It was the second week of July. I snoozed only once. Got my butt out of bed relunctantly. I went down to my basement and pressed PLAY… reluctantly. At the time, I didn’t even bother changing into workout clothes. I stayed in my pjs (changing would require extra work!). In pyjamas and barefoot, I did my 30 minute workout and it felt DAMN good. Ok, well it didn’t feel that good, I was tired and wanted to go back to bed but instead I went to the kitchen to fix myself breakfast. And that’s where the “Miracle Morning” moment happened. It was quiet. No screaming toddlers. I didn’t have to tend to anyone’s needs but my own. I had time to pause. Reflect. Meditate. Write. Read articles I had saved to my phone weeks ago. Email friends. Start a blog ;P



Since then, I have been waking up at 5am on weekdays and rarely missed one. I would not trade my 5am mornings for anything. And, the fun part now, is that I’m not alone! Many friends, colleagues and Beachbody challengers have jumped on the 5am bandwagon and we have a group called the fabfit 5am-ers!..and we keep eachother accountable just by wishing eachother good morning before we press PLAY.

If you are crazy enough to join us, contact me through my Facebook page. You might actually like it!

How to Get Over a Setback?

Ok, so who totally overdid it this past weekend? My name is Alex and I am a SUGAR ADDICT. I literally go crazy on Easter weekend, and Halloween, and Christmas and Valentine’s day and any day where we are swapping chocolate and stuffing our faces with dessert! I admit it: my kryptonite is CHOCOLATE and CAKE and COOKIES and…anything sweet and yummy and gooey!


My food intake is usually on track but sometimes life happens and you just gotta give in. It happens to the best of us! We are doing great, we are motivated with our fitness routine, sticking to our meal plan and then it hits… one moment of weakness and we feel that all that hard work went down the drain. We get down on ourselves and the negative committee in our heads chimes in: Why am I so weak? Did I really need that extra piece of [fill in the blank]? I can’t do this. This is too hard. I will never be healthy. I will never lose the weight. I’m just not strong enough to do it.


Why not switch off that voice in your head that is telling you that it’s time to quit or not even worth starting? If we listened to that voice in our head every time we started something new, we would not be walking today and we would still be wearing diapers. Let me explain:  when a baby learns to walk, they will inevitably fall down, stumble, trip… but does that baby tell himself or herself: What’s the point? I suck at this! I might as well stop here before I hurt myself even more? NO! They keep going and keep falling and learn how to stand, then learn how to take a few steps, then finally they learn how to walk. That doesn’t mean they will never fall again. Heck, we all have tripped on a stair or carpet even once we’ve mastered the art of walking. But do we give up? NO. We get back up and continue our walk as if nothing happened.

Now, how about we use this same approach to our health goal?

learning to walk

Here are 10 tips to get back on track today:

START NOW – you can’t undo the past but you can definitely do better in the future. Learn from it.

DRINK WATER – This helps flush out all the toxins. Add lemon for extra flavor and a detox boost.

EAT – Don’t make up for overeating by not eating, just make better choices

PLAN – Plan your meals this week, including snacks. It takes the guesswork out especially when you’re in a pinch for food and tempted to grab anything on the go.

VEGGIES – Load up on ‘em

MOVE – Get your sweat on. Trust me you will feel better after. If you don’t at least you will feel less guilty ;P

BE YOUR OWN BEST FRIEND – What would you tell a friend if they “screwed” up? Would you beat them up about it or would you tell them to not be so hard on themselves and move on? Unless you’re an old Italian grandmother, I think you would chose the positive option!

RE-FOCUS – Put your focus back on WHY you wanted to get healthy in the first place.

REMEMBER: Life happens!

REPEAT this tomorrow, or why wait ‘til tomorrow, REPEAT this at your next meal!

And if you still feel you need an extra boost to get on track, you can always contact me and join my motivation challenge group! It’s never too late to make healthy choices. YOU GOT THIS!


What is a Beachbody Challenge Group Anyway? And why you need to join one…

As a motivation/fitness coach, my goal is to, first, get you in the right mindset to set goals and support you along the way so that you crush those goals. Your mind needs to be at the right place. Once it is, I will help your inner beauty and inner strength shine through and reflect outwards (a.k.a, finally lose those damn pounds! And get toned).


I must confess. I used to be anti-challenge groups! Yes, you read correctly. Heck, I didn’t want to join a bunch of strangers and post details about my private life and how bad I was at sticking to my workouts and following the “clean eating” principles! In fact, the first challenge groups I was invited to by my coach, I barely posted anything in them. I would just quietly observe others and read posts. Mind you, I found the posts interesting but, I don’t know, I was too shy I guess and didn’t quite understand them.

That’s why I decided to write this post! Challenge groups were and still are a game-changer for me, they are what keeps me motivated every morning to workout and challenge myself and better myself.

So what are Beachbody Challenge Groups?

In its most basic form, a Beachbody Challenge Group is an online group led by a coach (and co-host coaches sometimes) either via a Facebook private group or the My Challenge Tracker app. Each member of the group follows one of the many Beachbody programs and shares their experience with the group. Simple enough, right?

In reality, it is so much more! Challenge groups are a place where:

– your personal coach (and co-host coaches) provides useful information by posting tips on nutrition, meal planning, fitness tips, motivation tips, support, simple tasks that will help you and challenge you along the way;

-you meet like-minded people who understand and support you along the way;

– challengers can share their experience with others in terms of their struggles but also their successes;

accountability is set into action by posting your daily rating of how you did with your food intake, workout, and overall mood. Coaches or other challengers are there to offer support and any tips that have helped them through some obstacles (100% NO NEGATIVITY ZONE);

-the dynamic of the group motivates you to push yourself further and show up and crush your health/fitness goals

positivity reigns and you get a dose of “happy” to start your day.

If you have never participated in a Challenge group, it might have been what you’ve been missing after all!

If you are interested in joining a Challenge Group, there is one starting on Monday April 17th, 2017. What better reason to burn off that Easter chocolate (sssssssss)?

Click on the link below or contact me for more details. 

Easy, Healthy Meal Planning in Less than 90 Minutes

Do you often grab less than healthy food choices because you are so hungry at certain times during the day?


Wanna learn how to prepare all your meals and lunch for the week in under 90 minutes? Then this article is a must. Meal prep will not only save you time but it will also save you money in the long-run.

Step 1: Write out your plan

It doesn’t have to be fancy or anything elaborate, just write down your meal plan for the week. You can use a variety of methods such as a planner (my favourite is ME and My Big Ideas Fitness Planner) or an excel/Word document or good ol’ piece of paper and a pencil. At the top (in columns), write the days of the week and then in the rows leave a space for breakfast, morning snack, lunch, afternoon snack, and one last space for supper.

ME planner
Me & My Big Ideas Fitness Planner – I love this planner!

Step 2: Start with the easiest meals

For me, it’s a no-brainer, breakfast and morning snacks are my easiest to plan given that I like eating the same thing during these times. So for breakfast, I will put my Shakeology drink and for morning snacks I enjoy a small bowl of oatmeal with fruits or raw vegetables or yogourt.

Breakfast for the week: Shakeology packets (chocolate is my favourite) and overnight oatmeal is the best.

Here are more easy, healthy snack ideas:

-apple with 1 tbps almond butter

-1 oz cheddar cheese and 1 c. grapes

-raw veggies and 2 tbps hummus

-plain greek yogourt, honey & berries

-about 10-12 almonds and an orange

-whole wheat toast, 1 tbsp ricotta and strawberry jam

-cucumber slices and guacamole

-one hard boiled egg and 1 c. diced cantaloupe

-whole grain toast and almond & coconut butter

-celery and almond butter

Some easy lunch ideas:

-pre-cut and cooked turkey strips with quinoa and spinach

-re-cut and cooked beef strips with mesclun salad and pine nuts

-smoked salmon, quinoa and raw veggies

-turkey & lettuce whole wheat wrap

-and the easiest of all…leftovers!

Lunch for the week: Mason jar salads are easy to make and carry!

Step 3: Tackle the more complex meals

In my case, it’s supper meals. I often don’t like eating the same thing and I also have a family to feed and want to accommodate as many mouths as I can with healthy recipes. My solution is that I keep it as simple as possible:

-oven-baked salmon with asparagus and brown rice

-chicken stir-fry with ramen noodles

-fish tacos with loads of vegetables

-whole-wheat spaghetti with turkey meatballs

-veggie omelet

-shrimp stir-fry on brown rice

I also double up the supper recipes so that I either can have some for lunch the next day or freeze a portion for an instant lunch the week after.

Other useful tips if you are short on time:

No-cook meals: Did you ever see how easy kids’ lunches or meals can be. Why not prepare one for yourself. Just make a bunch of hard boil eggs for the week, have some turkey slices on hand, and cut raw veggies and fruits and voilà!

Buy pre-cut vegetables or meats if time is an issue. I also get individual hummus and guacamole cups. It may cost more but if you will eat it instead of forgetting to put the bigger package into smaller ones, then it is all worth it!

Re-use old meal plans so that you don’t have to worry about having a new one every week. Old meal plans are a savior when life gets really busy. I just dig up an old one, and update my grocery list and it takes all the guess work out of that step. Also, if you are a member of Beachbody, you can have access to the meal planner and they create a custom one for you each week.

Lunch ideas
Example of food for 1 day.

Click here to access your free printable Meal Planner Sheet

Weekly Meal Plan

Living with Anxiety

It always makes me smile when people refer to me as Zen. I often hear “you’re always so calm” (and no, you will not hear these words coming from my husband!). But to the outside world, I appear calm and fast forward to today, I am calm, most of the time. But this was not the case 15 years ago.


From as early as primary school I battled some scary demons. I wanted to be perfect. I wanted to please everybody. I didn’t want to upset anybody. Confrontation terrified me. My anxiety got to a point where it was debilitating. The worst moment I recall was when in a bookstore and was having trouble breathing, felt hot and sweaty and lightheaded and couldn’t get out of there fast enough to get some air. When it became unbearable on a regular basis (to the point of losing sleep and not being able to concentrate at work), I chose to get some help because living like that, for me, was not an option, and I knew there had to be a solution. I wanted to change and do something about it. That is the most important realization.

I went through cognitive-behavioral therapy for several months. Basically, the goal of this type of therapy is to change negative thinking patterns or behavior into positive ones or at least ones that don’t generate a negative emotion. I would say that moment in my life opened my eyes to a whole new world. I am now able to see things more clearly. I know that I will never fully get rid of my anxiety, in fact, it is actually normal to have anxiety at some point in our lives, it is a human emotion. But instead of fearing it, and trying to run away from it, I acknowledge it, let it in and let it go (as I channel my inner Elsa). If you are suffering from anxiety, there are some tricks that have come in pretty handy for me:

Caffeine, excess sugar and processed foods are the devil:

Some physical sensations mimic the feeling of a panic attack or feeling anxious such as rapid heartbeat, sweating or feeling hot (hot flashes), clammy hands, feeling lightheaded or dizzy. These sensations are physical and can be controlled to some extent by making changes in your diet. In my case I realize that caffeine and excess sugar was creating the same sensation I would feel when I was having an anxiety attack. Before, I used to associate the situation to the anxiety but then I realized that it was my diet the culprit and not, say my job creating the anxiety! To this day, if I drink a can of Coke in the afternoon, I won’t be able to sleep the night.

Instead a healthy, balanced diet and particularly protein (almonds were my savior) and eating every 3-4 hours are crucial.

Drink more water, stay hydrated!

Dehydration can also induce anxiety-like symptoms. It is important to drink at least 8 glasses of water per day. A simple action such as drinking water can help with anxiety-like symptoms. If you are not a fan of plain water, you can have herbal teas or flavored water (mint leaves and strawberries for example).


Sleep is the best medicine

Make sure you get between 7 & 9 hours of sleep per night. Sleep disrupts your internal clock like it’s nobody’s business. When we lack sleep our body functions, hormones and regulating systems get out of whack and that’s where we tend to make bad food choices and emotions run high. Sleep, get the rest you need and you will get a handle on your anxiety.

Read more: How to fall asleep fast and easy for a complete night sleep?

sleep and baby

Crank up the endorphins with Exercise

Yoga helped me quiet the mind and maintain focus. It’s a soft, gentle and kind practice that helped me center my thoughts. Up until recently, yoga and walking were the only forms of exercise I practiced. I find that my cardio and weight workouts provide another kind of serenity. Getting your heart rate up ups your endorphins (feel good hormones up!) which works wonders on anxiety. We often just want to roll up in a ball when we are stressed or anxious but pushing ourselves to work out can actually be helpful and bring our focus elsewhere.

Also, it is important to know that you will be ok, accept the discomfort of the feeling and know that it will go away but don’t force it out the door. Be gentle with yourself and realize that it takes practice.

Read more: How to Cope with Anxiety

If you are still struggling, do yourself a favor, get over yourself and seek professional help. This is your Life, make it the best, happiest life you can.

Follow me on facebook @fabmindfitbody or join my email list for more tips on how to control and manage your anxiety.

zen and relax

How to Get and Stay Motivated: Fitness Accountability Tools

So you just started a workout program and you are totally motivated! Week 1 is going great. You feel excited, your body is adjusting, the moves are challenging but you are charged, your nutrition is on point. Easy peasy, right! Then week 2 strikes! Usually this was about when I started to lose my initial mojo. Why did I start this again? I really want a cookie. What no weight loss/abs/guns in a week?!? All of a sudden this workout program ain’t too exciting and I just feel like going back to my comfy couch.

Please avoid this trap! If you can get past these first few weeks, you are not only going to finish your workout program with great results inside and out but your workout will actually become part of your lifestyle.

Here are some tricks that can help you stay motivated…

Join a challenge group

Facebook is flooded with challenge or motivation fitness groups. Basically, the premise of these groups is to follow a predetermined program with a bunch of people following the same program (it’s more fun having a common goal than going at it alone). When I joined my first Beachbody challenge group, I was not one to post much on social media. In fact, when I first started out I was more of an observer in these groups than a participant. Either way, I found it motivating to see my timeline filled with people working out and reading about their struggles and successes. I felt part of a family and it made me feel like I wasn’t working out alone and it motivated me to challenge myself further. Another fun part is sharing the struggles and the successes but also tips and recipes and how to organize your time better and not to mention the bonds you build that last beyond the duration of the challenge group.



Another motivating tool is StepBet or DietBet. Basically, you bet on yourself. Each person puts an amount (usually 30$ US) into a pot. The app determines your step or weight goals for a given week. The program usually runs 6 weeks. At the end of the 6 weeks, if you reach your goals, you win the pot and it is divided with all remaining participants. Don’t get too excited, you are not going to win millions doing this, on average you get about 15$ to 20$ on top of the amount you put in. Nevertheless I find these games quite motivating, especially that it would suck to actually lose that money! There is also a community within each game so you can converse and share with other players.

Set a reward goal

At first, I set a goal to have the confidence to wear a bikini. Once I hit that goal, I told myself when I reached my goal weight I would buy myself an Apple iWatch. I had to earn that watch.  After that, I set a goal to become a coach and therefore be an example for others. Goals are meant to be fun and motivate us to challenge ourselves. It was something that kept me going and made me work a little harder each time. In order to stay liable, set a date to achieve your goal and tell someone so that they keep you accountable. My next goal, who knows, maybe a 5K or bikini competition!

Keep a log

In my experience, the best way that I managed to stay on the straight and narrow was by logging my food intake and physical activity. Technology has made the process so much easier. My favorite app is  hands-down My Fitness Pal. If you subscribe to it you can even sync your fitness watch to the app and it will take into account not only your calorie intake for the day but also how many calories you burned via exercise. It also provides useful tips on healthy eating and working out.

If you are more the traditional type, there are amazing fun planners out there for fitness such as fitbook and Me & My Big Ideas fitness planner. That way you can track your workouts and food intake so that you can adjust your workouts and meals accordingly.


A workout buddy

My last suggestion would be a workout buddy or someone that supports you in your health journey. It’s amazing how much more we can accomplish when we are being motivated and supported and cheered on to attain our goals. I’m always available if you need me to be your buddy, just contact me!


What accountability tools do you use to stay motivated?

Part I: Rockin’ the Sweaty Selfie (or any Selfie for that Matter!)

I know that we are supposed to accept and love ourselves the way we are yet we live in an age of photo/selfie obsessed weirdos who constantly post obviously filtered/retouched pics of themselves (what? Me?  no way! ;P). Blame it on the Kardashians, but let’s face it, who doesn’t like seeing a good picture of themselves? Who, here, has ever been guilty of posting a group/family picture based on how good THEY looked, nevermind that your nephew was picking his nose, your better half’s eyes are half closed and he/she looks plastered or that your daughter’s head was chopped off the photo, the point was that YOU looked freakin’ amazing on that picture.

Why should only celebrities have all the good photoshopped pictures? Wanna know how to turn every picture to your advantage? Ok, I’ll let you in on my little secret…

When I post my early morning workout photos, people often ask me whether I apply my make up beforehand… The answer is a big ol’ NO. I might be vain but I’m not crazy (or just crazy enough to function). Not that it didn’t cross my mind, but I figured that with all the sweating (euh, I mean glowing) going on, I would have to reapply afterwards and that’s just a waste of time. Actually, it is much easier than that, I just use an app or rather appssssssss! There are actually 3 apps that I particularly like and here they are in order of importance:

Makeup PLusStep 1: MakeupPlus

This was the first app I found that instantly gives you a flawless complexion, rosy cheeks, and the greatest eyelashes. For a basic, lightly retouched selfie, I suggest to smooth out your complexion with the foundation feature (put the cursor less than half the way to the end for a more natural finish) and don’t forget that within the foundation feature there is a “beautify” option that will also smooth out your skin, add a little blush and extend your lashes (my favourite is the Climax style) and, ta-daaaaa, you are Kardashian-ready!

Just subtle changes can make a big difference. I used the foundation, mascara and eyebrows tools.

This feature also lets you change lipstick color (and choose a satin, matte or gloss finish and choose color intensity) same goes for the blush and eye shadow. You can also opt for the contouring option which makes you “glow”, you can retouch your eyebrows, apply eyeliner, have fun with disguises and even change your eye color! Who needs makeup, right?! Here are some examples from my own experimentation:

You can totally waste so much time having fun with this app! My many disguises.

MakeupStep 2: BeautyPlus

I use the BeautyPlus app as a companion to the MakeupPlus app. The BeautyPlus app is great for hiding blemishes, unwanted dark spots and dark circles for those mornings after pulling all-nighters (mommies, are you listening?)! It also allows you to whiten teeth, make your eyes bigger, narrow your nose, slim you out (face or other body parts) and make your eyes sparkly. Who doesn’t want that? Plus this app also has filters if you want to create a mood with your selfie and have some fun with it. Check out the examples below.

Used the teeth whitener, eye brightener, eye contacts, skin smoother and eyelash enhancer tools.

FT2Step 3: Facetune 2

The Facetune2 app is amazing for tuning up your features. Want bigger eyes, a slimmer nose, a smaller jaw? This app is the way to go. I use this app to finetune if I have some free time to spare. It also has many of the features from the other two apps but I find them less effective and don’t work as well. Facetune2 has an extended array of photo features such as changing the background, adding text to your pictures, using a filter (the selection is enormous), etc. See for yourself…

You can be subtle or go crazy with the apps. Top left: original pic; Top rignt: subtle retouch & filter, Bottom left: Background added; Bottom right: Added makeup!

Also, a few final tips, for a successful selfie make sure to limit shadows (those are hard to get rid of) and enough lighting or else the app features can look strange.

Now go ahead and post your fabulous selfie here!

(CAUTION FROM THE MALE SPECIES: Ultra retouched pictures should never be used on online dating profiles, as to not freak out potential suitor when you actually meet in person! :D)

No Time: No Worries

Hey you! Yes, you. The one running around juggling ten million things at once, the one trying to find some time to unwind when you have an endless to-do lists … Doing all that you are doing, you must have some time-saving hacks in your back pocket? Anything that helps you cut corners yet get the task done? Here are some of mine…

  • Stop washing your hair as often. I truly dislike washing my hair and styling it. I say this and I also refuse to cut my long hair. If you really wanna save time, cut it! If you’re stubborn like me and loooooove having long hair, then I learned to get it washed and braided professionally once a week. No need to go to a high end salon for this, you would be surprise at the prices. Usually my braids last me 4 to 5 days and I just put hair spray to upkeep and voilà! Dry shampoo is also a fav when I leave my hair loose, you can go on 3 days without washing with dry shampoo. Magic stuff!
Hair collage (1)
I found an amazing hair stylist named Natalia and she works in my office building!
  • Become a weekend chef! On Saturday, I start preparing a grocery list of what I will need for my meals in the coming week. On Sunday, I meal prep. It used to take all day… now I can get it done in 90 minutes (there will be another post on this I swear)! Usually I prepare a large batch of a recipe on Sunday (it lasts for supper that night and another meal during the week), then I make another batch of a second recipe that can be eaten twice). I buy salmon (that’s easily prepared) and no need to worry about cooking time during the week.
  • We used to throw out so much food and leftovers. I realized how many things you can actually freeze. After 2-3 days in the fridge, I will freeze any leftovers. When my bananas (or any type of berries) are starting to ripen, I freeze them and use them for my morning Shake. You can even freeze cheese!


Read: 7 Tips on healthy habits for women for a better living

  • Don’t pick up after your kids. It is POINTLESS! Limit toys to one area of the house and only pick them up when you know guests are coming over. Just kidding, if they are old enough, get them to help. In my case, when they help, it seems worse. I learned to stop trying to keep pieces of puzzles in the same box or dressing up half naked dolls. Channel your inner Elsa and LET IT GO!

mom mess

  • Get someone to clean your house every 2 weeks. That being said, get someone else to pick up the mess (haha!). I was reluctant to do this at first. I insisted I could do it all. I finally gave in once I was pregnant with my second daughter and I must say that it is a blessing. I hired someone to clean and do all the things I don’t have time for as a full-time working mom. It is a good investment… until my daughters are old enough and get them to help… right now they are in training.

What are your time-saving hacks? I am always looking for more…

What is Beachbody? Getting past the cheesy name…

Infomercials. Pyramid scheme. Oiled-up muscle men and women. Tight-abbed folks. These were the thoughts that crossed my mind before signing up. I learned about Beachbody through an old colleague who was posting her workouts on Facebook and whom I saw shed some serious post-pregnancy pounds. Not only did she look amazing and strong but she looked like someone who had her sh**t together. I had to know her secret, after months of procrastinating (and rolling my eyes at her workout posts), I finally got the nerve to contact her.

At first, I was a little overwhelmed by all their program options suited for all types of workouts and different levels. I was happy that my colleague (now my Beachbody coach) was able to guide me through the choices. I was surprised to find out that all their programs include a meal plan and nutrition guidelines and a workout calendar, it’s an all-inclusive type! (woohoo! It did all the thinking for me!) Plus the part I loved the most was that you get a personal coach assigned to you! I lucked out because my coach gave me the attention, motivation and tools I needed to get started (be careful, I heard not all coaches are that amazing, so you need to look out for that. However, you always have the option to switch coaches at any time if you aren’t happy with yours).

The first program I picked was 21 Day Fix because losing 10 pounds in 21 days seemed like a good challenge. Luckily, my coach was there to check up on me because the first couple of weeks were pathetic. I was trying to figure out when to work out with my busy life and meal planning took over my entire weekend. But through the challenge/motivation groups and talking with my coach, I got tips and cues on how to make my workouts fit in to my lifestyle and how to simplify meal prepping for the week. And within a couple of months, it became part of my life.

Since then I have gone on to complete eight of their programs including 21 day fix extreme, PiYo, 22 Minutes Hard Corps, P90x3, Country Heat, Core de Force, Hammer & Chisel and now T25 Focus. And there are so many more I can’t wait to try: Body Beast, I have my eye on you! I went from couch potato to waking up at 5am six days per week to get my workout in. The changes both physical and psychological cannot be described. My life has changed once I got over the cheesy name and has led me to become a Beachbody coach myself and share what I have learned and give back.

My transformation results from June ’16 to October ’16

Beware, Beachbody is not a magical solution but the ingredients and YOU are what make it work. Given my lazy background, I also modify a lot of the moves, I don’t jump and I have chocolate every single day! I found that short workouts, easy meal ideas along with the motivation and someone to keep you accountable were the key to a healthier life. It’s definitely worth a try!

If you are interested, contact me and you can join me in my March Challenge Group called “Getting your sh**t together for Summer!”

It’s not the aptitudes, it’s the attitude!

To this day, I still remember those simple words written in black bold letters on a white board stuck on the door of the employee lounge when I worked part-time as a cashier at the Royal Bank of Canada while pursuing my Master’s degree in Psychology: It’s not the aptitudes; it’s the attitude that counts! I wasn’t the quickest cashier or the one which the most knowledge in financial affairs but I did genuinely want to help out my customers. I was actually grateful that this was the employee motto ‘cause my “cashier” aptitudes were… how shall I put it… much to be desired! I once handed over $5000 cash to a customer and forgot to withdraw it from his account (oopsie!) or the time I wrote the wrong branch number and transferred money to another person’s account. In both cases, I was able to correct my mistakes and had an amazing supervisor who guided me through it all and was understanding. But I  learned early on that being kind, having a pleasant demeanor, taking the time to genuinely appreciate your colleagues, customers and superiors paved a brighter path, even if you are not the best in the field.

In the book “The Slight Edge” by Jeff Olson, the author emphasizes that mindset and attitude are key to getting you where you want to go. People with positive outlooks are more likely to have better outcomes in whatever life throws their way. They are not victims, they do not make excuses, they own their successes and their failures. Besides, there will always be somebody better, younger, more skilled than you at some point. Skills, although very useful, can only get you so far but a positive, happy attitude can get you to your goal and a happier life.

There is something magical about magical thinking

You know the saying “Think it and it will happen!” (or something around those lines)? Well, I truly believe it. Sounds naïve right? But think back to a time when you really, really, really, really wanted something with every fiber of your being. For me, there were many instances that proved this theory right: a job I really wanted, a trip, a pair of shoes (hihi!) but for the sake of this post (and because I almost didn’t think it was possible but still wanted it), a big one for me, was to marry my (spoiler alert) now husband. We had been dating for five years and coming from an Italian background, the need to marry this man was greater than anything I ever wanted. Problem was, he did not view marriage the same way therefore was happy simply living together forever without the “piece of paper”. I, on the other hand, envisioned our life together, united forever with a “piece of paper”, building a family together and going through the chaos of raising children together; and I wanted it badly. The topic was discussed, argued, scoffed at… I tried being nice, angry, there were tears,… and then when I didn’t think there was any hope… he caught me off guard and finally proposed.

Now I’m not saying that everything we want we will get without making any effort. I am talking about those dreams and hopes and wishes we truly believe in right to the core of who we are. The ones that we can envision and somehow know deep inside that it will happen even though we have no clue HOW it will happen. Don’t lose sight of those. Write them down if you need to but never let them get away or rationalize them away, because it is those very dreams and wishes that will guide your actions, and everything you do. Your energy will exude those dreams and whishes and one day they will get you to your goal. In fact, I would twist the saying around and scream “Think it and make it happen!”.

My Favourite Excuses Not to Work out!

Hey there! You may not know this about me but before getting all gung-ho about fitness I was a professional excuse maker especially when it came to exercise and working out. I was so good at it that excuses became my daily mantra. Plus there are soooooo many to choose from, it’s so easy NOT to work out! Here is a list of my Top 10 best excuses NOT to work out:

  1. I don’t have time!

This one was my all time favourite! It’s easy to use and seems pretty credible. We are so busy! We work, we have kids (or not), plans with friends, trips, we have appointments, meetings, we have to eat, sleep, poop, breathe… So many things to do in one day! But have you ever noticed that no matter how busy you are, if you really want to do something you find the time to do it! One of my University design professor once told me if I dedicated as much time into my school assignment as I did shoe shopping, I would be an A+ student! (yes, it was a sexist remark, yet it was true in my case! The next year I switched fields (psychology), was passionate about the topic, spent my Saturday nights studying and ended up being a straight A student). Back to shoe shopping, I love shoe shopping and if someone called me right now to go shoe shopping I would probably drop everything and go. Bottom line, we all have the same 24 hours in our day. We have access to a plethora of workout apps, programs, and tools. There are 7 minute workouts, 10 minute workouts, 30 minute workouts,… It’s up to you to find something that you can stick into your schedule and that you enjoy doing.

  1. I hate changing into workout clothes

This excuse works very well if you have a lunchtime class or a class after work and you don’t have much time to change. Unfortunately, now that fitness fashion is making its way into our day to day closets, this excuse is becoming extinct (who cares about the whales, this one needs saving!). So the hell with the excuse and do what I do, wear your workout clothes as outfits (if your office policy allows it of course). Whenever I have yoga lunch class, my typical outfit consists of black Lululemon leggings (quality has got to be there if you are in an office setting), a long black classy tank and an oversized wrap or long open front sweater. When I first started working out in the morning, I used to do it in my pjs (or undies, shhhhhhh!) because I was too lazy to change. And if you are really desperate, why not sleep in your workout clothes! I knew a fitness instructor who used to do this and she said it would give her no excuse not to workout!

  1. There’s no point, it’s not as if it’s going to make a difference

I usually reserved this excuse for PMS days and was mostly said to myself. I didn’t believe in exercise, well more precisely I expected that if you exercised one day then you would see results by the next day or at least by the day after that. It took 40 years to learn that the benefits of exercise are 1) not typically visible physically the next day 2) positive changes are actually taking place the minute you start exercising, you just don’t see them but you can start feeling them: better sleep, better mood, better circulation, etc. And don’t get me started on the long term benefits!

  1. Let’s go have supper/a drink/insert anything more fun instead of working out

Ahhhh, my friends can attest to this one! I was the worst workout partner. You know when they say to buddy up in order to motivate eachother to work out. Well, whoever would buddy up with me used to end up worst off than when they started. I was the bad influence, the one who knew that even though you said you wanted to try that new yoga studio down the street you would really just rather go out somewhere and indulge in some amazing food and chat the night away; ‘cause that’s what I really wanted to do… mainly because I didn’t feel like changing into my workout clothes! If you have a friend like that, no matter how many times she tells you she wants to go to that class with you, DON’T BELIEVE HER! Unless she totally turns her mindset around fitness around, then you can totally text her ;p

  1. I need something or someone to motivate me

Working out alone is boring and you may do it for a while but sometimes we need to be held accountable and supported in our actions. With all the motivation/challenge groups out there you can get motivation at the drop of a hat! I regularly run challenge groups on Facebook and it’s amazing the motivation you get when you are surrounded by people going through the same struggles and going after the same goals as you.

  1. I hate getting all yucky and sweaty

This is a pathetic excuse given that we live in the 21st century and showers are actually an indoor thing and easily accessible at gyms, homes and even in some offices! Or just carry wipes or just workout from home! And for long hair issues, do what I do and get your hair braided once a week so it is out of the way during your workouts and no styling (or washing) needed for at least 3 days!


  1. I might injure myself

For someone like me, this was a real cause for concern. I used to avoid doing anything too strenuous, especially before a big presentation or business trip for fear that I may injure myself. This stems from the fact that I actually did injure myself either at the gym or when I would start running. Now that I am older and wiser (most of the time), 1) I avoid high impact sports 2) I pay more attention to technique 3) I modify certain moves and gradually challenge myself a little more each time. Trust me there is always a modified version that will get you the results you are looking for, no need to pretzel yourself silly! So far so good!

  1. I’m sorta healthy so I don’t really need to exercise

Sometimes people start exercising once they receive a warning from their doctors to do so. But for most of us, we don’t seem to have health issues or we haven’t gone to see a doctor in ages so we figure nothing is wrong with us. Hey, if I’m still breathing and walking, then I must be ok. You do NEED to exercise so that you can PREVENT those health issues. Think of exercise as an investment you make in your health. The more you exercise and move the more your body and mind benefits from it in the long run.

  1. I’m too tired

Before having kids, I was always tired. I was tired to the point that I was scared of having kids because of the energy it would require for me to skip nap times or crashing on the couch as soon as I got back home from work. Then I had kids and I was even more tired but realized that I could still do things despite the fact of being tired such as cooking a meal to feed my child, changing a smelly poopy diaper. I couldn’t even bear the thought of adding a workout to the list of things that made me so tired. But you know what the weird part is, the more you move, the more energy you get. That’s why you need to work out, duh! It’s amazing the energy you gain from just 15 minutes of rigorous exercise. Just try 10 minutes and build up slowly within a couple of weeks you will start seeing a difference.

  1. I don’t need to workout, running after my kids IS my workout!

I used this one with my coach, thinking it would get me off the hook from my 30 minute workout. Unfortunately it didn’t. Her response: That’s great Alex, that you ran around the park with your kids now go work out and text me later to let me know how it went! So I did, and you know what: it felt good! It was something I was doing for ME, without having to think about anyone else and it felt good. Yeah I know I said it twice but it’s worth repeating.

What’s the best excuse you’ve used not to work out? (I may need it one day 😉

Getting Started!

“The secret of getting ahead is getting started” – Mark Twain

Ever had an amazing idea and didn’t know where to start? Or better yet, wanted to apply for a new job, start a new sport, try a new recipe, start a weight loss program, change a bad habit, start a thing with that guy or girl you’ve been eyeing and then once you decide “Today is the day!”, all these anxiety provoking thoughts start fluttering and multiplying in your head. You feel paralyzed and finally decide it ain’t worth the trouble? What if I fail? What if I’m not good enough? What if people think I’m stupid or tacky or cheesy for doing this? What if this leads to the total collapse of the human species? Ok so maybe that last one is far-fetched but I’m Italian so my drama comes out of me once in a while! This was exactly what was going through my mind when I decided to launch my blog. And the irony in all of this was that getting over your fears and taking action was the exact reason I decided to launch my blog in the first place!

First, all the running, swirling thoughts in your brain before undertaking a new action is normal. The more the action is out of our normal routine, the greater anxiety it will generate. We, as humans, are programmed to dislike change. For the most part, we like what is familiar, what we know, what we can predict. Have you ever stayed in a bad relationship/job/apartment longer than you should have simply because doing something about it would require too much energy? Change is uncomfortable, we don’t know where it leads and we fear we will be worse off than when we began. If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it right? But sometimes, there is a spark inside of us to do something and action ignites this spark into something we can learn and grow from.

So, if like me, you’re caught wondering whether to go for it or stay with your current, perfectly content, situation, ask yourself these 3 questions…

“What if” I don’t take action…

What if I didn’t accept the job offer? What if I didn’t go on that trip? More importantly ask yourself: how will it make you feel if you don’t do it? Several years ago, when I went back to work after taking a yearlong maternity leave with my first baby, I knew I wanted a second child right away (clock was tickin’ on this 37-year-old mama!). I was content going back to my old job as a senior marketing research consultant and getting back to my routine. However, less than a month later, I got a call from a head hunter, who offered me a great opportunity and instinctively I was interested. Then the thoughts started: What if I don’t like it? What if I don’t get along with my new colleagues? What will my boss think if I leave after only one month after my return? What will it look like on my CV that I have changed jobs after only a couple of years? But then I asked myself THE crucial question: What if I don’t go for it? How would it make me feel? And my answer was that I would feel like I missed out on an opportunity. Heck, I may not even get the job, but if I don’t at least try, I will never know and I would regret not having tried because another part of me strongly believed this was a good thing and that I was the right person for this job.

Trusting your gut!

Our gut is truly our second brain. It can tell us when certain things make us uncomfortable in a bad way and when things scare us but excite us at the same time. But you have to be in tune with the subtle difference between the two. This is what happened when I got the call telling me I got the job. I was a week late in my period (sorry if TMI but that’s how I roll) and told myself that if I was in fact pregnant I wouldn’t take the job because it would not be fair to start a job and leave after less than a year to go on mat leave. How would it look? What would people say? So I took the pregnancy test and it was…. arkkkkk POSITIVE! My first thought: Shoot! I really want that job! So I listened to my gut and signed the contract anyway and crossed my fingers that I would have an understanding boss. Well, turned out I ended up miscarrying a few weeks later. I was sad but even more crushing would have been that I would’ve made my decision based on another premise I didn’t know the outcome to. Trusting my gut was the best thing I could’ve done for myself.

Envision yourself succeeding

Imagine yourself in the new job position, with the ideal weight, in a relationship with the person you’ve been eyeing. How will it make you feel? Without over thinking it, what will you feel you gained? How can your life be improved? After having my two kids (yes got pregnant, about a year later), I had an extra 15 pounds of post pregnancy weight to lose. It wasn’t a big deal, clothes still fit me but I didn’t feel like myself and it was bugging me the crap out of me. Yet it wasn’t bugging me enough to actually do something. Until one day I got fed up of hearing myself complain that I only had 15 pounds to lose and how cool it would be to actually go back to my pre-preggo weight. I was tired of wearing my spanx one piece bathing suit at the kiddie pool and finally decided to contact an old colleague who was starting a challenge group with a Beachbody program. The first thing she told me was to picture myself with the weight off and ask myself: What was my ultimate goal? What would it feel like when I accomplished my goal? Mine was to obviously to look good in a bikini but also to be a healthy, vibrant, better version of myself. That mental image stuck with me and motivated me to keep pushing play. It fueled my workouts and played into changing my eating habits. Change didn’t happen overnight, there were baby steps but one day that same image I envisioned was staring right back at me in the bathroom mirror. Yay!

Getting Stronger every day!

So remember: Every decision you take is the right one for you at the moment you take it. If you succeed it is the right decision and if you fail it is still the right decision because you learned from it. In the end, if you have your heart set on doing something, don’t ruminate over the negative self-talk, just go for it! I bet you even the slightest action will make you feel proud that you are finally doing something towards your goal and truly living your life.

Now tell me… what have you always wanted to do but were too scared to do?


It’s my birthday and every year I feel a sense of excitement around this time. My husband, on the other hand, in no way, shape or form “gets” birthdays, so he always looks at me strangely when I make a big deal about mine. And mind you, I feel as excited and giddy about anybody else’s birthday. Birthdays are special! We are walking-living-breathing miracles. Think of the odds of being born. There is just one of YOU in this world. Each one of us is unbelievably unique and I believe that is reason enough to celebrate!

This year, I will be 42 years old. The strange thing in getting older is that the image I have in my mind when I think of a 42 year old woman is not quite the same as how I see myself.

crown bday

I picture a 42 year old woman as having her shit together: confident, strong, takes no crap from anyone. Always knows what to do or what to say in any situation. Her clothes, makeup and hair are impeccable at all times. Someone who understands all the writings of a mortgage and RRSP and all that adult stuff. A woman who knows exactly where she is going and has a clear idea of her future life path.

Me, as a 42 year old woman, goes more like this: I’m flying by the seat of my pants to get my small kids out the door in the morning. Most often than not I feel like a hot mess. I get shit done but in no way do I really know what I’m doing half the time. Dry shampoo, concealer and ponytails are staples in my makeup repertoire. The days when I notice an oatmeal stain on my pants (left by a half-cleaned three year old), I usually wipe it off with my own spit! Usually I don’t even notice the stain, until I worked all day and looked down at my pants at 4pm and wonder WTF is that?!?

stressed mom

I have to agree that one thing I have in common with my imaginary 42 year old self is that I do have a certain level of confidence that I didn’t have in my twenties or thirties for that matter. I feel better in my skin and don’t feel you have to prove anything to others to own your worth. I also feel like I have so much to learn and have found a new outlook and curiosity for life. I’m no longer trying to achieve this and that but rather look at life as a learning experience and am intrigued by people and situations and put my heart and soul into trying new life opportunities to learn from and share with others.

I embrace and am grateful for the 42 years I have been on this Earth. I look forward to the next year and am ready to seek and appreciate all the moments that show up. I look ahead, surrounded by all the wonderful souls on this Earth, and chose to live the best life and grab all the wonderful opportunities that come my way. No second wasted.

How do you celebrate your birthday?


Dear Motivation, You suck!

Dear motivation,
Once again, we were having so much fun before you decided to leave me once again. We had this great thing going. I was happy to get up every morning to workout and plan my healthy meals; then you bail like you have done in the past, slipping quietly out the back door.


Why did you have to leave me again?! You always do this to me. Right when I think I finally found something that works and am filled with energy, you always manage to slowly disappear, get lost, and vanish.

And to make matters worse, you leave at the worst moments: when it’s cold outside, when I’m feeling stressed, when I have a bad night’s sleep, when the kids are sick, when I go on business trips, when I leave for a relaxing vacation… Don’t you understand that THAT’s when I NEED you the most!!!!!


Why can’t you be more like Discipline, I can count on her. She whips my ass out of bed (no matter how grumpy I am), gets me up when I don’t want to and pushes me into action. Sure, sometimes I push her aside but then she always wins because I know she’s right. I know that my workouts make me feel better, I know that eating regularly keeps Mrs Hangry pants at bay; why don’t you get that and stick around. Damn you motivation!

How do you expect me to get anything done if you’re not around? I look for you everywhere. It’s not like I don’t want to workout or lose the weight or tone up or stop eating that extra piece of chocolate, you’re just not there when I need you. Screw you! And willpower too while I’m at it!

And then once and a while you come back and were soo happy again and you make me feel like this time it’s forever, a new start, I can take on the world but then two weeks later you sneak back out again. I don’t have to take this.

From now on, we can have an open relationship. You can come and go as you please but if you’re looking for me, I’ll be with my new crew: Discipline, Patience and Consistency.  They may not be as sexy as you but those chicks, I can count on to get the job done EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.


See ya around mothafucka.